"self" -ish

not egocentric...or self centered... or maybe just a bit.... but it's about you... your self... me actually... and my self...

"loving ourselves means focusing on our positive aspects, the ones that makes us feel good about ourselves"

I was just reading this and it made me realize what a shame it is that i keep saying to myself that i can't do this or that because I'm not good enough... well, i sure am not tall enough or skinny to be a model, I'm not close to being a star, but that is not even close to my goal... and only the average woman would rather have beauty than brains, for the average man can see better than he can think... and i am definitely not average!!!

and it goes on like this
"with that foundation in place, we can move on to loving whatever we focus our attention on"

so i have to start loving myself :D
and that brings me to my first idea... "self" - ish... and even selfish... the first thing i have to do in order to love myself is to be selfish... and stop caring so much for others, and start focusing on my own... i should start with clearing my head... arranging and solving my own problems instead of listening to other people's issues... start being more optimistic about me and my situation... that implies that i should keep my smile on in every circumstance and it will eventually turn in my favor...

so hello positive thinking!

oh and a good advice when you feel down: "Don't think of yourself as an ugly person... think of yourself as a beautiful monkey"