Saturday, 14 February 2009

love is in the air?


14 February... Valentine's Day... for some, a wonderful and cheerful day... for me, this day is always just the day after 13 February...and i don't need a Romeo by my side to change my opinion... i just think that it's such a big fat lie... for this is not an authenticate Holiday... it's just a commercial way to show how much you love your significant other... everywhere hearts and roses and sugary stuff... i don't get you, people who like and do this... why you need a special day called Valentine's day? why can't you do this every day? you don't have to buy flowers and gifts everyday, but every once in a while, without a special purpose, showing that you care means more than one day everybody celebrates as the St Valentine... I'm just not ok with that (or with marriage, but that is something i'll expand another day, today i'm just grossed with the sugar overdose my eyes get)

Friday, 13 February 2009

friday 13



i probably shouldn't have left the house today... because it's the double trouble friday 13... and i don't know why, but everybody seems to believe that this is an awful day for anything you would commence... but why do people believe in superstitions?

superstition is a belief or notion, not based on reason or knowledge
the word is often used pejoratively to refer to supposedly irrational beliefs of others, and its precise meaning is therefore subjective. It is commonly applied to beliefs and practices surrounding luck, prophecy and spiritual beings, particularly the irrational belief that future events can be influenced or foretold by specific, unrelated behaviors or occurrences.
to medieval scholars the word was applied to any beliefs outside of or in opposition to Christianity; today it is applied to conceptions without foundation in, or in contravention of, scientific and logical knowledge.

OK, so that's the basis... now let's have fun with superstitions
  • friday 13... bad bad luck... i'll tell you more later
  • walking under a ladder...this came from the early Christian belief that a leaning ladder formed a triangle with the wall and ground. you must never violate the Holy Trinity by walking through a triangle, lest you be considered in league with the devil...it is said that this can be undone by immediately walking backwards back underneath the ladder
  • "if you are to step on a crack
    your mother would then break her back"
  • throw salt over their shoulder after they spill it, in order to blind the devil, who sits at your left shoulder...is said to cause a fight or argument during the day
  • breaking a mirror is considered to cause 7 years of bad luck. to "undo" this, take the shards of glass and bury them underneath the moonlight. in ancient times, the mirror was said to be a window to the viewer's soul. if that mirror were to break, it would take time (or 7 years) for that 'cracked' soul to heal as 'time heals all wounds'
  • in India, there is a superstition that a pregnant woman should avoid going outside during an eclipse in order to prevent her baby being born with a facial birthmark
  • in Iran, birthmarks are called 'maah-gereftegi' which means eclipse
  • in Korea, there is a superstition that leaving a fan on in a closed room will suffocate the occupants
  • in the theater, it is bad luck to wish someone "Good luck." instead, one is to say "Break a leg."
  • uttering the word "Macbeth" in a theatre is said to bring bad luck, unless performing the show. it is commonly referred to as "The Scottish Play"and is supposedly cursed.
  • whistling in a theater is bad luck. the most plausible explanation is that in early theater, the flyspace was operated using an advanced system of whistles, and nonchalant whistling may cue a tech person to do their cue too early and screw up the performance.
  • the green room should never be painted green
  • seeing a peacock in or near a theater is bad luck. peacocks were once believed to possess the "evil eye" in their tails. most bad luck in theater can be expelled by having the person responsible turn around themselves to the right three times, then spitting or farting... say whaaaat?
  • if all of the candles on a birthday cake are blown out with one breath, while making a silent wish, the wish will come true.
  • black cat crossing one's path is dependent upon culture: some cultures consider this a sign of impending bad luck, while some cultures consider this a sign of impending good luck.
  • opening an umbrella indoors is said to result in 21 days of bad luck. some traditions hold that it is only bad luck if the umbrella is placed over the head of someone while indoors.
  • placing a hat on the bed is, apparently, bad luck. (South Carolina)
  • placing keys on a table is considered unlucky. (Sweden)
  • it is bad luck to put new shoes on a bed (or a table) (comes from the tradition of dressing a corpse in new clothes and shoes and laying them out so everyone can give their respects) (UK)
  • collect seven or nine different flowers on midsummer eve and place them under your pillow and it is said that you will dream of your future spouse. (Sweden)
  • the phrase "See a pin and pick it up then all day you'll have good luck" is a superstition created from the first line of a poem in the book "The Real Mother Goose". Modern variants sometimes substitute the word "penny" for pin.
  • when you speak of bad luck, it is said that one should always knock on wood. also knocking when speaking of good luck apparently helps with having good luck. this is an old Celtic tradition related to belief of wood spirits.
  • before traveling a person should, apparently, sit on their luggage. (Russian)
  • two people breaking a wishbone is said to lead to good luck for the person with the larger piece.
  • once a wedding ring has been placed on the finger, it is considered bad luck to remove it.
  • there are numerous sailors' superstitions, such as: it is considered bad luck for a ship to set sail on a Friday, to bring anything blue aboard, to stick a knife into the deck, to leave a hatch cover upside-down, to say "pig", or to eat walnuts aboard. Some beliefs state that it is bad luck to have a woman aboard ship, while others say that a storm will give way to calm if a woman bares her body to it, which may explain why female figureheads are often bare-breasted.
  • some motorcycle enthusiasts hang a biker's bell from a portion of their bike to protect themselves from evil road spirits.
  • it is bad luck to kill a ladybug because it represents the Virgin Mary
  • even saying 'God bless you!' when someone sneezes started with a superstition... during the plagues that swept through Europe in the medieval period. according to legend, during the time of a plague, Saint Gregory I the Great ordered that people say "God bless you!" when somebody sneezed, to prevent the spread of the disease
Today is Friday the 13th and, if you're not careful, an evil spirit could enter your body and steal your soul - or, at the very least, cause you to drop a meatball on your crisp white shirt. To ward off bad luck, protect yourself with any of these five rituals or tokens employed by cultures around the world.


Muslims call it the Hand of Fatima, while Jews refer to it as the Hand of Miriam, hamsa hand or hamesh hand.
Both faiths, however, agree on its powers. The hand with the colored eye -- found on necklaces, ornaments, stickers, etc. -- will shield you from the powers of the evil eye.

Layer on the eyeliner and smoky eye shadow.

Ancient Egyptians believed that makeup prevented the evil one from entering your eyes.

Show the 'horned hand.'
It looks like a secret greeting among Metallica-heads, but Italians do the mano cornuta for protection. To form the gesture, use your thumb to hold down your middle and ring fingers, then extend your pointer and pinkie like horns. Though this might ward off evil spirits, it could also attract heavy-metal rockers or University of Texas fans.

In Jewish tradition, you have a few
options:

Spit three times on your fingertips, then wave them in the air; throw salt; say, in Yiddish, kayn aynhoreh ("no evil eye"); or eat lots of garlic. For Transylvanians, the garlic (worn, not ingested) also frightens off vampires and werewolves.

Grab a carrot,

a replica of the Washington Monument or any other phallic object. According to Romans, such objects seduce the evil spirit away from you -- however, your carrot might then be possessed


oh....these are some lyrics i found expressing sarcastically my opinion on all these

"I throw salt over my shoulder
Got a rabbit's foot round my neck
I'd try any kind of Voodoo
To get you back, by heck
I'm fussy about mirrors
I do not step on cracks
I can't walk under ladders
I pull kittens out of sacks
These silly superstitions
Are driving me insane
If you come home I will be good
I just can't stand the strain
I don't mess with umbrellas
I always knock on wood
Cross my heart and hope to die
I promise to be good
All my pennies go in wishing wells
I never sit on hats
I won't have shoes on tables
And I can't abide black cats
I give nuns complete attention
Light candles by the score
I'm so involved in magic
I won't be bad no more
I help old ladies crossing streets
I don't give people knives
I never play with matches
Or other fella's wives
I don't mess with umbrellas
I always knock on wood
Cross my heart and hope to die
I promise to be good"

Wednesday, 11 February 2009

"self" -ish


not egocentric...or self centered... or maybe just a bit.... but it's about you... your self... me actually... and my self...

"loving ourselves means focusing on our positive aspects, the ones that makes us feel good about ourselves"

I was just reading this and it made me realize what a shame it is that i keep saying to myself that i can't do this or that because I'm not good enough... well, i sure am not tall enough or skinny to be a model, I'm not close to being a star, but that is not even close to my goal... and only the average woman would rather have beauty than brains, for the average man can see better than he can think... and i am definitely not average!!!

and it goes on like this
"with that foundation in place, we can move on to loving whatever we focus our attention on"

so i have to start loving myself :D
and that brings me to my first idea... "self" - ish... and even selfish... the first thing i have to do in order to love myself is to be selfish... and stop caring so much for others, and start focusing on my own... i should start with clearing my head... arranging and solving my own problems instead of listening to other people's issues... start being more optimistic about me and my situation... that implies that i should keep my smile on in every circumstance and it will eventually turn in my favor...

so hello positive thinking!

oh and a good advice when you feel down: "Don't think of yourself as an ugly person... think of yourself as a beautiful monkey"

Tuesday, 10 February 2009

i want more



and it's a good thing
it makes me progress

i want more not from somebody , but from me...
i want to work harder and be proud of what i did in the end...
i want to be able to say the things i think...
i want to be proud of my ideas and my thoughts...
i want to show them with all my rightful respect...

but just a will won't help unless i actually do something towards it

i have a new role model...i envy her a bit...she is able to do whatever she thinks of....i want that too...i dream a lot...and a fantasize even more... i have to put my feet back on the ground and act as i think... i have to live my dream, because i waste it almost every day.

i have my chance...and i have to make it happen

Monday, 9 February 2009

the games


when you say 'game', where does your mind stop?

the games we play.... the games that play us...
the players...
the team mates... the opponents...
the victories... the looses...
the winners... the losers...
the king... the queen... the rooks... the bishops... the knights... the pawns...
the Muppet... the string puller...
the dummies...

every time i think on that word it all ends up in.... yes, manipulation... there are these games where you have to play by the rules, follow the steps, be the first one at the finish line, play it all fair... and i think that every game should be like that... but it's the players.... yes it's a player's intervention that changes it all... you know, like when you play chess... you anticipate your opponent's next move and you act according to your guess... if you are a good strategist you might be the winner in the end... still there is luck and hope, and players that play by that rule...like in a poker game... bluffing for their hand is not so good... still there can be a lot of strategy and tactics in there...
anyway, i was thinking in people and how I relate with them... because these days, i was feeling manipulated and played... and not just by one person... but by many... and by many close ones... is it because i look innocent? or is it because i am trying to be nice that people use me? do they even realize that what they do or say might hurt me? do they notice me as 'the queen' or am i just another 'pawn'? and i admit it that i let myself fooled and manipulated ... though i am not naive... and all of this because? because i am a sucker for love and affection and in my try of getting them, i focus so much on the others that i can't even realize what they are doing to me... and it's so sad when you see the truth and the strings...
so no more feeling like a dummy... no matter how much you'll play me, I'll break my strings one day... so enjoy it for now... cause I'll sure have my toys that day.

Game on!